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Most lovers wanted to be married someday when they are already stable. They prepare for the nice wedding, reception and of course, honeymoon. They also prepare their new house and have some savings for the future of the children. However, very seldom that we prepare for the worst. But what is worst in a marriage? Well, it is the separation of course.

So before getting married, you might want to know some possible causes of a broken marriage besides having a third party.


Unreasonable Jealousy

After being steady for a long time, you thought you already know each other very well. So you thought it is not necessary to tell your hubby about your simple past. My cousin got divorced because of this. It all started when she thought her husband was flirting with his childhood friend after not seeing each other for a very long time. It is hard to blame any of them but the thing is that someone has been unreasonable, one way or the other.

Too much pride

There was once a happy family in which the husband is the only breadwinner when they got married. But the wife had to work to help her husband and eventually, she was promoted. She is now receiving higher salary and respect in the society than her husband. But because of too much pride, the husband starts to be naive which led the happy marriage to collapse. In every marriage, humility is a must.

High expectations

Because your hubby is a beauty queen or an honest politician, your expectation will be higher and you will not bother to discover the weak points. Then after some months of marriage, you discover that this beauty queen does not even know to cook, or this honest politician is snoring so loud at night that you really cannot take. Then gradually, the high respect will turn into anger and thus, separation is just a breath away.

Scared of security loss

If you marry a wealthy businessman, obviously you will be rich too. You can buy anything that you want, tour around the world, and live like a queen. However, the trouble begins when his business starts to collapse, your world will start to crash too. Since you get used to it, you will find it hard to adjust. Do not worry; this problem will most likely occur only when you married someone because of money.

Feeling of rejection

Sometimes, your wife will be too busy with the kids and her work. You being very tired from work too are expecting that your wife will wait for you to join you during dinner. In worst cases, your spouse rejects your invitation to make love because she simply is not in the mood. You are used to get easily what you want, and now tends to get them from somebody else. You will not realize what will happen next.

Marriage can only be made in heaven if couples will act humanly.

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