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It is obvious that financial crisis is still enjoying its stay, and we can only do our best not to worsen it. I must admit, I am among those who is still being greatly affected. After the Dengue tragedy to my wife and daughter last January, things got worst for us.

I am currently doing odd jobs and selling anything just to make ends meet. I wake up at 3:45am to sell Hot Pandesal, and then streetfood in the afternoon. I have been looking for a job for more than 5 months, but it seems that they are not yet attracted to me. My debts are increasing, and has been selling some of our valuable things including my PC.

However, I just cannot give up blogging especially that my blogging friends strongly suggested that I renew its hosting service. A lot of them offered support and eventually, Father Blogger is still alive and kicking.


Anyway, financial crisis should not be an excuse to ignore watching over our children. In fact, I even think this can be the right time to aware them about the situation. While my children saw me struggling everyday to make a living, I see to it that they understand the situation and will learn somehow. So if you somehow think that we share the same problem, here is what I suggest to do as a parent.

Don’t blame your children

I overheard my neighbor shouting at her 8-year old son, ” You’re wasting your food, that’s why we are poor.” Our children is not in any way the reason why we suffering from financial crisis. We are totally responsible on what is happening to us. We should not blame the government, the US, and even ourselves. Finger pointing will not help anyway. Instead, think of ways on how to solve the problem.

Do not show discouragement

As a human, we are sometimes being discouraged. However, we must not show this our children. We are their model, and they may follow what we do. If they see that that we are sad and frustrated, they will think that we are weak. They may also pity themselves and think that they are addition to our problems. I know it’s hard to smile during tough times, but we must do it. Smiling can make us feel comfortable, and healthier in case you do not know.

Educate your children

Instead of blaming our children, why not educate them. Almost a year ago, I made a post on How to Teach your Child the Value of Money. I strongly believe that if they understand how money works, then they will start saving it. As early as possible, our children should be aware about money with or without financial crisis. After all, it will be for their own good especially if they will have a family of their own.

Teach them how to save

By doing this, they will understand that we are doing our best to solve the problem. In fact, they may even be able to suggest some money-saving tips. Being a parent does not mean we know everything, and our children can see things that we cannot see. Late last year, I wrote a post about 100+ Effective ways for Family members to save Money and I suppose it will be a big help to all of us.

By the way, I would be grateful if you can help me find a job. I am a licensed ECE, and was last employed as a Manufacturing Supervisor for almost 7 years. In any case, please do not hesitate to email me at afvc_623[at]yahoo[dot]com or text/call me at 09193208296.

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