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For most men, to be a father someday is among their biggest dreams. But when that time comes, they become lost and do not know how to handle tough situations. Unfortunately, a lot of children grow up hating their father and lost their way too.

On the other hand, some children still grow up responsible even if they feel that their father is only a sperm donor. But somehow, there is bitterness inside them and they wish their father had been there when they need him the most.

So while we celebrate Father’s Day this year, here are some of my ideas on how to be a good father. Read the rest of this entry »

The world is now celebrating Mother’s Day and most of us are preparing the best gifts for their mothers. I was already 26 years old when I first saw my mother, and I have not seen her since 2007. We are continents apart and I do not know when I will be able to see her again.

However, it does not mean that I do not have thoughts on how to love your mother. In fact, I think that I have more ideas than those who grew up and still living with their mothers. This is because I believe that to love a mother is more than just giving her gifts on her special day.

Although I assume that you already know all of them, I hope that I can make you realize how important they are before it will be too late. Read the rest of this entry »

As a parent, we always want the best for our children, and we will do everything just to give them the best. But apparently, some children grow up as a spoiled brat. Most of them do not even know that they are, simply because their parents do not know that they are spoiling them.

Some parents hardly know the difference between loving their child and spoiling them. Others might think that spoiling a child is only about giving extra material things, but actually it is more than that. It is a daily activity that some parents do not realize.

After reading this post, you will have an idea on how not to spoil your child and love him the way they should be loved. Read the rest of this entry »

Money is the root of all evils, and this is why there are people who hate money, I mean being rich. In fact, they hate rich people because they think these people are evil. I grew up in a very poor family, and I am still looking for ways on how to fight poverty. However, I do not blame anyone and I take all the responsibility.

I know my parents did not want me to grow up poor, but they seem to be helpless. Now that I have two growing children, I promise myself that they will not suffer the same.

As a start, I read good books and Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert T. Kiyosaki is among that I have been reading lately. It is not only very inspiring, but also give emphasis on what rich parents teach their children about money.

So if you are on the same boat, share the ride and let us visit the world of rich parents. Read the rest of this entry »

I have been married for 14 years and I am proud to say that I have never cheated my wife. Maybe this is because I do not have the looks or I do not have the guts. But for whatever reason, I somehow owe it to my wife since she has been very understanding and she trusts me.

Having said that, I think I have enough experience to share on how husbands can avoid committing adultery. Although it looks like macho for some husbands having the other woman and the society is blind with this issue, committing adultery is more than just hurting a wife.

For me, it is a very serious disease that we should cure, and the tips below aim to help not only husbands but also wives as well. Read the rest of this entry »

Just like in the office or in school, a family meeting is being held to make some agreements as well as to settle some disagreements. It is also a time to share some thoughts and opinions, talk about solutions to family problems, and to make the family closer.

Although a family meeting is more applicable to a big family and with grown up children, I think it should be done by every family. Therefore, it is very important to know how to make a family meeting work and will serve its purpose.

Since it is the parents who usually preside the family meeting, here are some of my suggestions on what they should do before, during the meeting, and how to end it. Read the rest of this entry »

For couples who just got married, this is the ultimate question that comes to their mind especially to women. Although some of them are confident, there are times that they cannot help but ask this question when they are alone.

Unfortunately, one cannot find the right answers right away since living in a single roof will make a lot of difference. This is because marriage is a daily activity that no one can predict what’s going to happen next, and it is a personal decision as to whether one will still stay or leave.

So how will I know I married the right person? Well, here are some situations that may help you find the answers. Read the rest of this entry »

There is always time for everything, and all we need to learn is the art of time management. For adults, time management is the answer to their everyday task. For a child, it is very important that parents should teach them the moment they enter school.

Although learning for them should be fun, your child should also know how to manage his time. This will be a big help for him when he grow up and will be busy with a lot of things. So if you want to learn how to teach your child the art of time management, here are my suggestions. Read the rest of this entry »